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PSYCHIC MESSAGES FROM THE SPIRIT REALM

Twin Flames, Split Souls And Parallel Lives

One Soul, Multiple Bodies?

"In rare cases if one twin is ready to work in service with their Divine Counterpart and the other not, then the twin who is ready to receive a flame relationship will create new possibilities with the higher self aspect of the twin into their higher reality... if one twin chooses to walk away from their Divine Counterpart on earth then the remaining twin will be compensated by drawing a second Twin Flame relationship into their lives... A second Twin Flame will still be the person with the matching frequency of the one true Divine Counterpart of which there is only one, but that Twin Soul can exist in more than one person." Nadine May.

The terms Twin Flame, or Twin Soul are spiritual definitions used to describe one soul which is understood to exist in a state of 'union', animating two bodies at the same time. Sometimes though, some suggest that there is evidence to indicate that, in very rare cases, a soul may split into more than two, becoming three or more independent yet simultaneously-connected essences of the One original soul. Such an occurance is broadly defined by using the terms 'essence fragments', 'parallel lives', 'simultaneous incarnation', 'simultaneous selves', 'split incarnation', or more commonly perhaps by the term 'split soul'.

A Psychic Bond

On earth identical twin births occur in a ratio of about 1 in 333 births, whilst identical triplets occur only within a hard to define spectrum of between 1 in 50, 000 and 1 in 200, 000,000 (1 in two hundred million), depending on the statistics being used. Only 70 sets of identical quadruplets currently exist in the world. So too (‘as below, so above’) therefore Triple Souls and Quadruplet Souls, etc, if they exist (which seems likely) then are infinitely rarer still than Twin Flames. Just as identical twins or triplets of the physical type can be shown to have a unique, often telepathic link with each other, simultaneous shared soul incarnations, like Twin Flames and Split Souls, it appears have an even greater connection because they are literally the same soul animating two (or, very rarely, three or more) bodies, at the same time, being therefore connected at a deeper than merely physical level (some use the example of quantum nonlocality as a close approximation of this phenomenon).

Does Everyone Have A Twin Flame?

Some believe that everyone has a Twin Soul. Others believe that only a percentage of people are twinned. Some indicate categorically that, in their opinion, souls can only ever 'split' into two, when a 'splitting' occurs (forming Twin Souls), whilst others state that it appears that just as here on earth where identical triplets and identical quadruplets, albeit rarely, are born, so too ('as above, so below') souls can also 'split' into three or more aspects, like a prism can separate a beam of light into rays of colour, occupying specific places on the spectrum, when the need arises. (Twin Flames are also sometimes called Twin Rays, so the prism analogy seems quite apt.)

One analogy I particularly resonate with that some Twin Flames use to describe this phenomenon is the one that indicates that souls are somewhat like musical notes, for instance C, with some distinct souls embodying all of the characteristics of C, incarnating therefore as 'single soul' non-twins, whilst others incarnate taking on specific elements of C, for instance with Middle C and High C being analogous dual incarnation distinctions in the case of Twin Flames, or in the case of multiple simultaneous incarnations C1, C2, C3, etc, all being aspects of C, yet manifesting with distinct, yet shared, identities.

As you can see, there are a number of popular theories that might be used to attempt to define something that cannot perhaps be adequately described in human terms. What is likely it seems, is that Twin Flames and other similar shared soul incarnations are intrinsically connected at the level of soul. They are indeed 'One'. They may have individual personalities, but their soul 'essence', evidence suggests, shares a common source. My wife Asha and I, for instance, are of the opinion, based on evidence, that we are part of a multiple split soul, which includes her late husband (now in the Spirit World), with whom I share many characteristics (a phenomenon which has, unprompted, been identified by two other independent psychics). Asha's late husband maintains a stunningly accurate ability to communicate with us - and what's more he's responsible for helping us to meet in the first place.

In my opinion then, the evidence seems to indicate that just as here on earth, where most people are distinct individuals, with a small percentage being born as identical twins and an even smaller, rarefied, number being born as identical triplets and quadruplets, that the same is true of souls (take a look at the evidence provided in the links below). At least one experienced writer has I've noticed (excuse the pun) 'split hairs', seeking to make a reasonable distinction between split souls and Twin Flames, indicating in effect that any 'split' involving more than Twin Flames alone is actually a combination of a Twin Flame/Split Soul phenomenon.

If embryos are our guide, a male or female half of a Twin Flame's soul it seems rarely will sometimes similarly split again, after the first division into male and female, so that, therefore, for example, a female twin might, in effect, have two male soul counterparts, both being aspects of the same original male half of the soul (which is how identical triplets are formed, minus the gender difference). Whether such an instance is to be classified as a Triple Flame, or a Twin Flame / Split Soul combination really depends upon the beliefs of the reader. At the end of the day, you must consider all of the available evidence in an open-minded way and come to your own conclusion. Personally, I don't have fixed beliefs, I tend to follow the evidence instead. What you can be sure of, though, is that if you are a Twin Soul, or even perhaps, more rarely, a Triple Flame, or Quadruplet Flame, Spirit will no doubt make this fact very clear to you, with undeniable evidence being presented to you directly BY SPIRIT. This means that the opinions, conjecture or beliefs of others, some of which can be narrow and quite fixed, in light of all of the available evidence need not be your only resource, rather Spirit will surely leave you in no shadow of doubt, if you are truly a Twin Flame and/or a Split Soul, by presenting you independently with proof that can only be described as miraculous. A reading with me, or any other genuine, accurate, psychic for that matter, will only affirm what Spirit has quite likely already proved to you, if you are a Twin Flame, Triple Flame, or some combination of Twin Flame and Split Soul, depending upon the definition which seems to fit best. The evidence will speak for itself.

Useful Links

If you're unfamiliar with the concept of Split Souls, you might find the following links helpful as you seek to discover more. The quality of the information varies and opinions differ here and there, but the consensus seems to be that sometimes, some souls will incarnate as Twin Flames... or occasionally even as multiple split incarnations.

(There are many more websites and books with information available on this subject.)

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"Split souls are a rarity... If they meet in this life, they require gentleness and a deep level of compassion and forgiveness for themselves, and each other, particularly at the start, as it can be a very dramatic and confusing experience." The Secret life Of Wellness. Inna Segal.

"I was also told that twin souls were most common, yet triplets, quads and more existed, much as humans can give birth to twins, triplets, quads, etc. Mankind is always seeking to simplify transcendent concepts, and the twin soul concept is just one among many which is unnecessarily limited." John J. Kelly.

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"One of the topics that made Silver Birch so interesting to me... was his explanation of our ability to reincarnate... in many bodies at once. It was Silver Birch who was among the first to explain the concept of so-called ‘parallel lives’ or ‘split incarnations’: Souls who were incarnate in more than one body at a given moment in time." Stephanie Bell.

(2) Living With A Higher Power, by Kerin Webb.

(3) Soul Family, by Sharon K. Richards.

One Soul, Multiple Bodies

Twin Flames: Not Very Sexy?

"People propagating these romantic twin flame New Age myths would become instantly nauseous and squirmy if somebody told them that it is indeed the spiritual version of monozygotics. Real “sexy” huh?! It is still totally beyond me how this split soul concept got translated (or hijacked) to mean something similar to a divine partnership or divine lover. If you have difficulty understanding twin siblings and how they are so glued to each other, that should be your instant red flag that your own relationship is not a “twin soul”."

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Someone calling themselves "JeyWel" wrote the above comment recently, in regard to one of my articles about Twin Flames. JeyWel in particular refers to the idea that souls can 'split', much like monozygotic embryos do, to form physical twins, but on a soul level, forming twin souls. JeyWel seems to be of the opinion that such 'splits' would not include romantic relationships, based on a literal interpretation of the monozygotic split soul explanation. Here, below, is my reply, which might be of help to others who also wonder about such spiritual ideas.

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Professor Gary Schwartz, in the context of his splendid research into the subject of psychic/mediumship, the Afterlife and the existence of angels wrote about the principle of the ‘White Crow’. Most crows are black. From a scientific perspective it could be easy to over-generalise and assume, since the weight of evidence indicates that crows tend to be black that ‘all crows are black’. Schwartz goes on to say that it would only require the existence of one white crow to prove the black crow over-generalisation to be wrong, when stretched to the Nth degree.

In the context of his writings he applies this principle to the subject of mediumship and the Afterlife, on the basis that a person only needs to demonstrate one good piece of evidence in support of an Afterlife, to disprove the ‘There’s no such thing as an Afterlife’ theory, which, in my opinion, his research has done, remarkably well.

One of the difficulties, from a human perspective, sometimes, is trying to translate spiritual phenomena into simple terms, as an aid to understanding, to some degree, otherwise Otherworldy circumstances that evade full comprehension. Twin flames, twin souls, split souls and parallel lives, I think are, arguably, beyond the range of our human comprehension to fully understand. As a result, some writers, myself included, apply recognised examples from ‘day to day life’, from which to try to best translate some ideas that are not fully accessible to human comprehension, into generalised terms, as a means to (try to) make sense of, as best we can, these concepts and experiences. This is a well-recognised principle. For example, the mystics have long spoken about having encounters, that can best be described as passionate, even erotic with a numinous Presence that they believe to be God. Rumi wrote about God in ways that would be apt for a suitor to write to his beloved. The Song of Solomon, in the Bible, is said by many to be an allegory for the ‘courting’ process that God seems to pursue with awakening souls. It is quite an erotic book, by Bible standards. Similarly, many Christians believe that Jesus ‘marries’ the church. The church, of course, is not a building, but rather the men, women and children who make up its number. St Teresa of Avila had visionary experiences in which she sensed the presence of an angel (if memory serves me correctly, identified as Archangel Michael), during which he ‘thrust a heavenly spear’ in and out of her body, in a manner that created painful ecstasies for her, a statue of which exists depicting such events, which reveal the saint in what could be described as the spiritual equivalent of orgasmic rapture. Writers have commented, in our post-Freud era, that she would probably have been mortified over anyone suggesting a sexual reference to her very spiritual encounter, but the parallel exists none-the-less. Rumi and other mystics, including the author of the Song of Solomon probably would not be mortified though, because they understand that Divine Union, with God, is, it seems, a feature of elevated spiritual experiences. Heiros Gamos is a term used to describe this phenomenon.

Of course, if we stretch this attempt at making sense of something that is not fully within our grasp to understand, we could balk at the concept of ‘union with God’, especially when considering that in human terms this could make God out to be a ‘philanderer’ of sorts, since He (or She) appears to enter into Heiros Gamos with many souls, if not all. It could make us squirm over the fact that God is sometimes called ‘Father’, so if we try to relate to God using both principles simultaneously, in an excessively rigid way, we could feel extreme uneasiness at the thought that a ‘Heavenly Father’, seeks erotic ecstatic union with his ‘children’. We might also be offended when considering that Jesus is said to ‘marry’ his church, which includes little children. Of course, the problem does not exist at the level of Spirit, but rather with human beings who try, clumsily, perhaps, to explain numinous concepts in earthly, human terms.

There appears to be enough available evidence to support the existence of an Afterlife and… the likelihood of reincarnation. Some psychic readers do, according to science and personal experience, seem to be able to receive and share information originating from the Spirit Realm, accurately. This collective information, in some cases seems to suggest that some souls animate more than one body at the same time. In this context, some of these ‘twinned’ souls it seems have miraculous shared experiences whilst receiving supportive ‘cross correspondence’ messages from the Spirit Realm, which identifies too that they are indeed twin souls. Despite those infatuated and self-deluding people who have ‘hijacked’ the term ‘twin flame’, to act as a ‘license’, it seems, to obsess over some other poor souls, this does not negate the fact that there does appear to exist a relatively small number of cases in which, the phenomenon of twin flames (white crows), twin souls, split souls or parallel lives occurs – and in many instances this phenomenon does involve a very passionate love-based connection between the ‘twins’.

When we take the monozygotic principle, or the ‘God the Father’ concept, or Heiros Gamos, or Jesus ‘marrying’ the church… or Rumi and the other mystics sensing that God is basically trying to ‘chat them up’ and seduce them… too literally and to the Nth degree, then they can seem like questionable ideas, but this is due, I suggest, to our limited perspective.

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Postscript: Jeywel responded to say thanks, adding that my reply was very helpful.

Don't Get Burned By A Twin Flame Obsession

Always Apply Common Sense

One of the saddest things I've encountered as a psychic reader relates to those people who become obsessed about real or imagined twin flames, to the extent that they diminish the quality of their own lives, and sometimes the lives of the persons they believe to be their twin flames too. I'll share a few examples with you, so that you can better understand what I mean.

As I write now, in 2024, just a few months ago a woman called me for a reading, during which it became apparent that she’d put her life on hold, due to a psychic reading she’d had way back in the 1970s with another reader, in which the supposed 'psychic' had told her that she was destined to be with a certain man, the result of which was that this poorly informed woman had avoided all other opportunities of finding true love, as she obsessed over the man in question, who had long since gotten married and moved on his life. I explained to this caller (in the hope that it would help her make the best of the rest of her life) that psychics can be wrong sometimes (though it remains to be seen whether the so-called psychic was genuinely gifted, or just one of those questionable readers who make money out of telling vulnerable people what they want to hear?). Whether my comments helped, only time will tell.

In a similar incident, another woman who phoned me from the USA told me that she believed a man she'd once briefly dated 30 years before, was her twin flame and as a result, she'd put her life on hold for the last 30 years, trying unsuccessfully to reignite a relationship with him. He rebuffed her at every attempt, telling her that he was happily married, with children. When I informed her that my psychic sense indicated that this man was probably not in fact her twin flame, she replied by informing me that I was the second psychic to say this to her. It seemed to me though, that her delusion about this particular man was so strong that she’d brushed aside the other psychic's sensible message, and as we spoke I felt that she was probably going to do the same with the message I’d received from Spirit for her too. It's quite likely that she continues to obsess about this man, right now.

In another instance, about 5 years ago, a woman called me for a reading, lamenting the fact that many people had informed her during the course of her life that her uncommunicative husband was unsuited to her. She knew this was true, but she told me that she kept thinking in response to these warnings, 'One day he’ll change'. Now in her 70s, she recognised, as she spoke to me, ‘He’s never going to change, is he?’, a rhetorical question which seemed to indicate that she finally understood that she’d wasted much of her life, with a man who was unsuited to her.

Not so long ago, in 2024, someone phoned me from abroad to talk about her supposed ‘twin flame’. As I provided a psychic reading for her, I sensed distance between her and the person in question, which she confirmed. I explained that he wasn’t thinking about her at all, whilst she appeared to be thinking about him all the time. I then began to sense that he was some kind of celebrity, a famous person, which she confirmed. I also accurately described this man’s children and his wife (which marriage the caller initially tried to evade confirming to me). As the reading progressed it became clear to me that this woman had become fixated upon a minor celebrity, whom she'd never met. What made the situation worse was the fact that it seemed that a so-called twin flame 'expert’ in the USA had been reinforcing this woman’s delusion. (It appears that this was another example of a questionable 'psychic reader' who was in the habit of telling vulnerable people what they want to hear.)

When true twin flames are destined to connect, the Spirit World will ensure that they do. It’s not a haphazard process. It’s an unstoppable event. What’s more, when true twin flames are ready to remain together, they will. Some twin flames, it seems, do separate, when one or more of the twins is not ready for the relationship, for one reason or another (which usually involves achieving a higher level of spiritual growth, before further progress can be made). Twin flame ‘separation’ is not though, a term that should be used to describe two people who’ve never had a relationship, where one person obsesses over another, who doesn’t even know that they exist. (And kidding yourself that you're meeting a celebrity in '5D', or some 'higher dimension', as the person described above did, doesn't count, either.) True twin flames in union are mature souls, who are secure enough in themselves that they do not need to obsess over their ‘other half’. When together, they act as two harmonious parts of one soul unit. When apart, in ‘separation’, the mature one of the two individuals trusts in divine timing, recognising that their ‘other half’ needs first to attain a certain level of spiritual/emotional maturity in order for the union to endure. Indeed, my sense is that obsessing over a twin flame whilst in 'separation' prolongs the separation, because the obsessing twin needs first to learn to find emotional and spiritual balance, before union can occur. I’m even aware of an instance where one person hired the services of online sorcerers to use black magic to attempt to cause a man to break up with his wife. In another instance the adage ‘be careful what you wish for’, seemed appropriate, when a man one woman felt was her twin flame turned into a stalker, to the extent that she had to move and go ‘off grid’ to hide from the obsessed individual. Some whilst married, have had affairs, in the hope that the objects of their affections would commit to them, when what actually happened, it seemed, was that they were just being used for sex, whenever it suited their paramours to make contact. It's not unknown for others to leave marriages, in pursuit of (real, or imagined) twin flames, who, in contrast, avoid them, even cutting off all contact with their unwanted admirers. One person even obtained a court order, to stop the unwanted attention of a pursuer.

Denial and delusion are powerful forces, which can cause individuals to reject common sense, in pursuit of real or imagined twin flames.

Genuine twin flames will be presented with an overwhelming amount of evidence from Spirit (you can read about my experiences with Asha on this website, for instance), that’s incontrovertible. In contrast deluded people will ‘clutch at straws’, in their attempts to make ordinary events appear to be ‘signs’ from Spirit. Once, for instance, a caller informed me that her music app had begun to draw her attention to music from a country associated with her supposed ‘twin flame’, when in actual fact it seemed to me, based on what she’d said, that what was actually happening was that because she’d begun to listen to music from that part of the world, her app had simply suggested similar songs. No magic, just an algorithm, based on her recent listening habit.

When I spoke with the woman who’d put her life on hold since the 1970s, and the woman who’d pursued someone for 30 years - and the woman in her 70s who’d lived her life hoping that an unsuited man would ‘change’, only recognising the fact that he wouldn’t when it was too late, I felt deeply sad for the women involved. I’m therefore sharing this information publicly in the hope that others can spare themselves the same fate, by casting aside unhelpful delusions. Don't get burned by a real or imagined twin flame situation. Use common sense. Live your life to the full. When you're destined to be with your divine soul counterpart, you will be. It's all a matter of divine timing.

Twin Flames, Split Souls And Parallel Lives

One Soul, Multiple Bodies?

Twin Flames: Not Very Sexy?

Don't Get Burned By A Twin Flame Obsession

Always Apply Common Sense

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